For all of us, there’s a tipping point. It’s the point where we know something isn’t right. We need to walk away and find a better way. As soon as the news broke that Mark Zuckerberg had lunch at Mar A Lago with the Orange Tyrant a week or so back, I knew the end was nigh. The further news that Facebook (FB) were trashing their fact checking service (such as it was), I knew the end had arrived.
I will be closing my FB account, and therefore its music and radio page, by no later than my birthday, 17thJune. Why so late? Why not now if I feel so strongly?
Well first, I point you to the certainty. There is no question about it. I will be leaving Facebook by the time of my birthday. Like anyone involved in independent music and radio, I have a following on FB. Each has their own set of reasons for staying on the platform or leaving it. Some will just use it less. A few will disagree with the stance I’m taking. So, if you have a mind to understand, let me explain that here.

Creatures of Habit or Obsession?
I’ve been on Facebook since 2007. Initially, it was a good place to connect with friends and family, reconnect with people I’d lost touch with, share common interests, and find new friends. It wasn’t long before I watched in horror as others accumulated thousands of ‘friends’, and the warning signs were switched on that all might not be well.
Those warning signs have been validated since the creation of Meta, and I think it’s reasonable to suggest everything started to go properly down the toilet from that point. By then, I ran a personal page, a music page, and a radio page. It was cumbersome, but in spite of growing reservations, I stuck with it. Since moving my radio show over to Folk Friday Radio, functional problems with the platform have only increased. I’ve received multiple notifications via my Meta dashboard days after I’d already answered them. I’ve been accused of contravening community standards by posting the handles of multiple music artists and the venues where they play, which I do out of a sense of real community.
They think they have us by the balls (well, about 50% of us anyway) because they know each of us would be reluctant to lose what we’ve built on the platform. They know that most of us won’t want the bother of finding another place to be. They know we risk losing connection with people we care for. Let’s think about that logically though. If you’ve developed friendships with people, it’s because you’ve found plenty in common, and in those circumstances genuine friends would want to stay in touch. It has never been easier for us to remain in touch with each other. All we require is the will.
Where Does It Go From Here?
I left Linkedin in 2015. I left Twitter in 2022. I left Instagram last year. I’m leaving Facebook this year. In business and in music, I’ve left many more platforms, because “something wasn’t right”, but I’ve always given each of them a good run. Have I lost or gained traction for my music and radio projects? I suppose that depends on the perspective, and the motivation for being there in the first place. My motivation is not big numbers because big numbers mean thin relationships, and that doesn’t interest me in the slightest. Many of the people who follow my music and radio work have become good friends. They care to communicate outside of the immediacy and transitory nature of social networks, and I reply, because that’s what I’ve done all my life.
Like 26 million+ others, I’ve taken a punt on Blue Sky Social. Having been there for two months, my current feeling is that it’s a much better place to be. It isn’t run by algorithms and it has its limitations, including a word limit per post, but I’m adapting and overall the experience has been a good one. I credit Blue Sky with my decision to continue the Compendium beyond show #200 in February. So that’s one place where you’ll find me: https://bsky.app/profile/johnreedmusic.bsky.social
I will also be making better use of the ‘Community’ tab on YouTube, and the blog tab on Mixcloud, which also has the option of running a chat feed for a live video/radio show. You can reply and comment on either of those platforms, and I will reply. I will pick up the number of subscriber messages I send on Bandcamp. You can reply and comment there too.I will continue to run these blog posts. So far, very few people have commented on the blogs themselves, probably because they don’t know that’s possible. It is, so feel free! You are also welcome to communicate with me by email: enquiries@johnreedmusic.com
So leaving Facebook won’t have much of an impact on my life, and certainly not a negative one. Of course Zuckerberg runs Whatsapp, and Messenger which I do use, and Threads, which I don’t, but I’ll need to think carefully about how I use those, or lose them, after my FB departure has actually happened. I’m certainly not going to waste any more time talking about it, and I feel very uncomfortable being part of any platform run by people whose views are diametrically opposed to my own.
Time to resume a more human lifestyle. I have better things to do.
Peace.
John















